1. You Feel “In Love” With More Than One Person
If your emotions jump from one person to another,
you’re likely mixing up lust and love.
Love isn’t a multiple-choice question.
2. You Say “I Love You” on the First Date
Dropping the L-word on day one isn’t romantic, it’s impulsive.
It shows you don’t understand the weight of love…
or you;re trying to pull them in fast.
3. You Let Others Define Love for You
If your idea of love is built from people’s opinions instead of your own experience,
you’ll keep chasing someone else’s version of happiness.
4. You Overshare Too Early
You tell personal stories before trust is even built.
That isn’t vulnerability, that’s rushing connection.
5. They Know Everything About You…
But You Know Nothing About Them.
When the balance is off, someone is in control.
And that person isn’t you.
6. They Never Invite You to Their Place
If months pass and you’ve never seen where they live,
that’s a sign:
They’re hiding something… or hiding you.
7. You Haven’t Met a Single Person Close to Them
Not one relative.
If their circle doesn’t know you exist,
you’re not part of their long-term plans.
8. They Lie About Their Life
If you’ve caught them lying about their job, lifestyle, or background…
you’re not in a relationship.
You’re in a story they made up.
9. You’ve Been Cheated On
If they’ve cheated on you once or repeatedly
that’s the clearest sign you’re being played.
Loyalty isn’t confusing. Effort isn’t confusing
10. They Give You One-Word Replies
“Sure.”
“Hmm.”
If your messages are paragraphs and theirs are crumbs,
their interest is not matching your effort.
11. They Never Call
No calls. No video chats.
Just disappearing acts and random messages.
They show up when it’s convenient not when it matters.
12. They’re Always Late… With Zero Heads-Up
Being late once is fine.
Being late every time means they don’t respect your time
or the relationship.
13. They Forget Date Nights & Ghost You
If they “forget” plans with you,
but remember everything else in life…
you’re not a priority
14. Their Circle Doesn’t Know You Exist
If you’re months in the relationship and still no introduction to friends or family
You’re kept in the dark on purpose.
Real relationships don’t stay secre
15. They Dodge All Future Conversations
Whenever you talk about the future,
Not because they’re shy…
but because they don’t see one with you.
